This past weekend Christina and I went to Sac. to visit her Aunt, her girlfriend and their adopted son- who had his 5th birthday party. He turned 5 years old after his birthday because he said he needed to have his birthday party in order to turn older..he loves Spiderman, so he showed up to wish him well. It was a good time...and then we came back to the cool S.F. City. Today I recieved word that my brother in laws brother was given 6-9 months to live because of his lung cancer....it all makes my head and heart hurt all over again...I see youth and growth potential one minute and life limitations the next...